Aries is lively and inpulsive. They sometimes lack the foresight necessarily to claim things. They're impulsive like a child. Grew up, these kids required attention. They wanted to be number one in the family so their parents probably spoiled them or allowed them to get their own way. Sometimes it's easier to give in to a demanding youngster than fight with them. And the Aries child, ruled by the warrior planet Mars was ready for battle. But what is Aries hiding? Their shadow is Pisces. The Ram feels a need to repress the Fish in order to survive. If they accepted their shadow side, Aries would have to surrender and let go. Finding satisfaction in serving others like a Pisces would do, is not part of the Aries nature. But if Aries were to embrace their shadow, they may find we need one another to survive.